Of God and Diapers

This blog deals with God and diapers. It is written for all Christians who have a diaper fixation. It is my hope that all who read it come away a Christian. Despite diapers you can be saved. God loves the Adult Babies too.

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I am a Wh/M/31 successful infantilist who was saved in 2002. I feel that God has called me to be a light to the Adult Babies of the world.

Tuesday, August 16, 2005

Is Diaper Wearing a Sin?

Did you ever see the episode of "CSI" called "King Baby" where the guy who died was an adult baby. Basically it went through many aspects of being an Adult Baby and it showed us in a close to realistic light. One thing that was thrown out very quickly I would like to talk about. His mommy said,"He explained to me that it was in the Bible and I was to clean him." This is not the first time I have heard someone reference how infantilism is in the Bible. So my question was, "where?" Offhand I believe they are actually talking about Bittergrey's website. It is my belief that normal people of faith stumble across websites that deal with God and diapers and assume that somehow we have married the two and we preach to people to wear diapers. Basically they don't get it at all. The idea behind these websites are to preach to people who ALREADY are wearing diapers. I am doing this site because I feel that God has called me to help the Adult Babies and lead them out of despair. I am not saying to be saved you must wear a diaper. That would be wrong. So let's take a gander at some biblical truths and lessons. Since I am IRL a software engineer I will pull these together logically the way a program would be written.

1. Is diaper wearing a sin? Is being a baby a sin?
That is easy. No. Nowhere in the Bible does it ever mention that adults wearing diapers or "swaddling cloth" is sinful. Jesus we all know is without sin.
Jesus was wrapped in swaddling cloth and was a baby at one time. He soiled himself many times. Being a baby must not be sinful. Therefore the conclusion is that such things are not sinful. It can't be sinful at any age either. There are no laws regarding age and sin except for the old Jewish traditions. Since it is not sinful to be a baby at a young age therefore it must not be sinful to be a baby at any age.

However, A Big However. As a Christian the law of God is increased. It is no longer based upon the physical world but upon the heart. In the Old Testament adultery was wrong. Jesus increased this and made it of the heart by saying that any man who lusts after a woman is committing adultery. He changed the definition of adultery from the physical lust of a married person to the heartfelt lust of a married person. Keep in mind adulterer's still have to have something to do with marriage. He also changed the definition of "sin" to be more than disobeying in the physical world. Sin is now disobeying in one's heart. That's great you say. Then why did you say the answer is "no". Because the only logical definition of what adultery can be is breaking of the marriage covenant in the physical world(OT) or the spiritual world(NT). To add other definitions to it adds to the word of God and is an abomination. (See the last paragraph in the bible). Diapers are an object and are not a married person. Diapers are just underwear. Do you think you are sinning if you enjoy wearing boxers over briefs?

2. So it is ok to pleasure myself?
I Corinthians 15-16
15Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh."

Now as our understanding increases so does the responsibility we have to God and our fellow Christians increases as well. I do believe that God does give us time to ourselves. To revitalize and restore our "Temple" as it is. The Bible says our bodies are Temples of the Holy Spirit. It mentions uniting it with a prostitute and how that is wrong. I believe this to be so. However, Anti-masturbatory people add to the Bible again and say that any kind of release is wrong. Nowhere in the Bible is masturbation mentioned as a sin. The first part about our bodies being a temple is used in parables that Jesus teaches. Most of them are related to the spiritual world and not the physical world. To start with, the foundation that we build upon must be solid. That foundation is the Rock which is the Cornerstone which is Jesus Christ. Before I go any further. If your foundation is built upon money, looks, wealth, diapers, envy, deceit, games, movies, or tv then when the storm comes you will be blown away. I ask you to reconsider having Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior. More directions can be found here.

Back to the temple. If the passage talks about the physical world (which I believe it does since it mentions the flesh) then one is to assume they are talking about health. The definition of health does change over time. I can just imagine ancient Christians putting leaches all over their bodies and talk about how they are cleansing their temple. Now we know that was not healthy, but the problem was that mankind is only beginning to learn how to be healthy. It used to be thought of as fat people being healthy. We now know the exact opposite. The conclusion is that in the medical field of today masturbation is seen as a healthy thing to do. Therefore if one is to follow the Word then one is try to be healthy in all things and that includes healthy masturbation as well as dieting.

Also, the New Testament is a mirror of the Old Testament. Practically everything that happened in Jesus's life and practically every letter in the New Testament has scriptural significance relating to the old testament.

"But at the beginning of creation God made them male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one." Mark 10:6-8 NIV

A key word is Flesh. You cannot become "one flesh from two" with masturbation or with diapers. It is physically impossible. Any additions to this is an abomination as well. See people like to think that being sexually immoral has something to do with their own genitalia, when really it has something to do with what you perceive other's genitalia as(like looking at porn) and what you do with other's genitalia(like sleeping with a prostitute) or what you desire to happen to your genitalia from their genitalia(lust). That is why the Bible is very clear that those are sins.

The Bible is not clear at all about our personal needs and this has to be so because all of our parts, all of our brain, all of our hypothalamus and hormones were carefully thought out and planned by God. He created everything. For us to assume that we are not to manually incite our own testerone when puberty hits and feel our own sexual elation in our brain is to assume that God's workmanship is flawed. God gave us opposable thumbs. He gave us the ability to release on our own. Not as a test, but as a way of avoiding the things which really are sin(see previous paragraph). I find that when I release I do not think about women, or genitalia or desire sex. If you look at it like this then you will realize that 10 minutes in the evening can give you purity all day.


3. So I can just go off and be an Adult Baby all the time, no consequences? God won't judge me for it?
Listen, I do not know your heart. Only you do. The most important things in the whole universe throughout time deal with the heart and specifically love. If you Love God without your heart, body and soul and you Love your Neighbor as you love yourself and you love Jesus and accept him as your personal savior and you even love those who persecute you and are your enemies then what is diaper to that?

As for God's judgement. Well let's just say this. God destroyed Israel countless number of times for breaking just one commandment about idolatry. How many of us have lied? If we were to take on God's judgement everyone on earth throughout time would go to hell. I say this because it is written in the bible. I am no one to proclaim anything of God's Judgement. I just read the bible and try to understands God's will. What I have written here today could've condemned me if it was wrong. But my belief is in Jesus Christ and something that he offered all of mankind:

Grace, LovingKindness and Forgiveness of all sins, past, present and future.

His grace and mercy demands respect. This respect comes to a healthy fear of God, which is justified. God can still chastise Christians for disobeying his words. How do you know if you fear God? You must become humble and abide in him. That is the way to truth. Jesus is the light. He came into the world to save it and not condemn it. That is why Christians can be free. We are not free from sin, but we are free from death. Jesus died and rose up from the dead to prove it.

So as you continue on trying to understand God and diapers and sin just remember to not dwell too much on sin. Quit spending your time thinking about sin and think about love instead. It is love that frees us.

--"Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute,if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things." (Philippians 4:8)

8 Comments:

Blogger EJ said...

Heya, not to burst your bubble, but this is YOUR site. Couple things: Loving Diapers - "If out of any relationship (including the one with your diapers) causes me to spend less time with Jesus, I should probably cut it out."

Wearing diapers in itself as a fetish of something you like is not sin, but oh how so easily does it become to sin. Masterbvation - yah, its wrong. Its not adultery but fornication I think. Anyways I will post more tomorrow if I am not banned.

Cause if you use this same logic with diapers, then you can almost substitute anything here- like of being gay.

11:28 PM  
Blogger Baby Brian said...

The difference is that being gay is a specific instance of abomination. Masturbation cannot unite anyone and is never specifically mentioned.

9:46 PM  
Blogger Thomas Dickensheets said...

There people who wear diapers are not gay. So your baby wears diapers is gay? Think about that!

5:42 AM  
Blogger Thomas Dickensheets said...

Wearing diapers is not sin.

We all sinners!

1:08 PM  
Blogger Confused... said...

I am still so confused on how i should take all this in.. my boyfriend resently came out and told me about his addiction to wearing diapers.. he likes to pleasure himself sexualy in them and he likes to incorporate them into our sex life.. i have been doing my best to accept and be understanding about this fetish but i find myself getting more and more turned off by this.. i feel like this fetish is the same context as a man wanting a threesome.. to me this is just like bringing a third wheel into the mix.. like he's lusting after something other than me.. as selfish as this may sound i cant just shut off what i feel about this.. sadly i find myself being jealous because i feel like these diapers provide something that i cant and in turn it makes me feel like im not enough for him.. i also feel like they totaly emasculate him.. he is the "man" of the house.. and by that title i feel like he is suppose to be the masculine one, the dominate one, the one who sets an example for our boys on how the should grow to be men.. and when i see him in these diapers i feel like they take all of that away.. i am really not trying to offend anyone, and i am really sorry if i do, but this is still all so new to me and i just want to try and understand how i am suppose to accept this in our life.. he has made it pretty apparent that this is something he is not wanting to stop doing.. please help me try to understand.. i have been searching different sites and when i see grown able adults peeing and pooping in their pants and rubbing it on themselves for pleasure it makes my stomach turn, even though my boyfriend has made it clear that's not the kind of fetish he has with these diapers it still puts him in the same catagory of ABDL.. What do i do.. How do i fit something i cant seem to understand into our lives... any advice would be much appreciated..

9:58 PM  
Blogger Brandon Fontaine said...

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12:51 AM  
Blogger Brandon Fontaine said...

Confused. . . Your viewing the diapers as some kind of third wheel is quite offensive to me as an engaged DL myself. It took ME years to come out to my fiance and I've been fortunate (blessed if you MUST) to have a woman in my life who not only accepted me for who I am, but embraced it with open arms. Our connection has never been stronger. She diapers me, I diaper her and we change each other.

" i have been doing my best to accept and be understanding about this fetish but i find myself getting more and more turned off by this..(If you're turned off by this and uncomfortable then you shouldn't be doing it.) i feel like this fetish is the same context as a man wanting a threesome..(HOWEVER holy shit HOWEVER you shouldn't be having such a HORRID view about something like this. Wanting to incorporate someone else into your sex life is on a WHOLE different level than something as harmless as a fetish. This has got to be the most offensive/possessive thing I've EVER heard) thing to me this is just like bringing a third wheel into the mix.. like he's lusting after something other than me (He's not lusting after something other than you, this is an attracting he's had all his life that could NEVER be removed no matter how hard he tried. The fact that he trusted you enough to come out should show you how much he loves and trusts you. It should also show you how long he was suffering in silence. If you cannot embrace and accept him then you either need to compromise and do the diaper thing with him every once in awhile and then do vanilla sex when you need to get off, or fucking leave each other because you're bad for one another).. as selfish as this may sound i cant just shut off what i feel about this"

"sadly i find myself being jealous because i feel like these diapers provide something that i cant and in turn it makes me feel like im not enough for him" (That has got to be the most paranoid and possessive thing I've ever heard. Diapers are an inanimate object and they could NEVER fill the void a person does. There are hundreds if not thousands of AB/DLs who will die alone and unloved because they have no one who'll accept them. Some will die alone and miserable because of it. And you're jealous of the DIAPERS?! Get over yourself.
"i also feel like they totaly emasculate him.. he is the "man" of the house.. and by that title i feel like he is suppose to be the masculine one, the dominate one, the one who sets an example for our boys on how the should grow to be men"
(Just WOW. How sexist and stereotypical can you get lady?! "Being a man" if fucking difficult. Is it any fucking wonder some of us want to be able to let go and relax a little after going through all the shit we do?! I'm a Marine combat veteran and you can search my facebook profile Brandon Ross Fontaine if you think I'm bullshiting you. I was in the manliest organization in the fuckign world for four years. Wearing diapers when I want to masturbate or have sex doesn't emasculate me at all. On the bloody contrary it shows I know who I am. I am confident enough as a man to know that my gender identity isn't in danger if I do things that aren't considered manly by other fucking stupid people. Also how the fuck does what you two do in the privacy of your own bedroom set ANY fucking example for your children unless their watching you fuck?! Do you have any idea how disconnected from reality your thinking is right now? Wow.)
"i am really not trying to offend anyone, and i am really sorry if i do, but this is still all so new to me and i just want to try and understand how i am suppose to accept this in our life."
(Well ya know what sorry I got so mad, but yeah you offended me first and . . . no if I offend you I'm not sorry. Means I made you think a bit. You're a grown woman and you can handle grown up words. )

12:53 AM  
Blogger Brandon Fontaine said...

"I have been searching different sites and when i see grown able adults peeing and pooping in their pants and rubbing it on themselves for pleasure it makes my stomach turn, even though my boyfriend has made it clear that's not the kind of fetish he has with these diapers it still puts him in the same catagory of ABDL"
(....Trying to contain my rage at this one. Not all AB/DLs are the same. This is a VERY complex and layered part of each individual ab/dl, ab or dls psyche. I don't know the exact number of people who're into the messing portion but I'm also one who isn't in that category and if your boyfriend says he isn't than he's definitely not.)


.. What do i do.. How do i fit something i cant seem to understand into our lives... any advice would be much appreciated..
(You sound like aside from mindfucking yourself by thinking too much about what you're doing and NOT talking to your boyfriend about this you've been doing the right thing. You've accepted and incorporated the fetish into your intimate life. . . you've probably made him happier than he's ever been in his life! I suggest you find some way to understand and appreciate yourself the way he no doubt appreciates you.)

12:54 AM  

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