Is Diaper Wearing a Sin?
Did you ever see the episode of "CSI" called "King Baby" where the guy who died was an adult baby. Basically it went through many aspects of being an Adult Baby and it showed us in a close to realistic light. One thing that was thrown out very quickly I would like to talk about. His mommy said,"He explained to me that it was in the Bible and I was to clean him." This is not the first time I have heard someone reference how infantilism is in the Bible. So my question was, "where?" Offhand I believe they are actually talking about Bittergrey's website. It is my belief that normal people of faith stumble across websites that deal with God and diapers and assume that somehow we have married the two and we preach to people to wear diapers. Basically they don't get it at all. The idea behind these websites are to preach to people who ALREADY are wearing diapers. I am doing this site because I feel that God has called me to help the Adult Babies and lead them out of despair. I am not saying to be saved you must wear a diaper. That would be wrong. So let's take a gander at some biblical truths and lessons. Since I am IRL a software engineer I will pull these together logically the way a program would be written.
1. Is diaper wearing a sin? Is being a baby a sin?
That is easy. No. Nowhere in the Bible does it ever mention that adults wearing diapers or "swaddling cloth" is sinful. Jesus we all know is without sin.
Jesus was wrapped in swaddling cloth and was a baby at one time. He soiled himself many times. Being a baby must not be sinful. Therefore the conclusion is that such things are not sinful. It can't be sinful at any age either. There are no laws regarding age and sin except for the old Jewish traditions. Since it is not sinful to be a baby at a young age therefore it must not be sinful to be a baby at any age.
However, A Big However. As a Christian the law of God is increased. It is no longer based upon the physical world but upon the heart. In the Old Testament adultery was wrong. Jesus increased this and made it of the heart by saying that any man who lusts after a woman is committing adultery. He changed the definition of adultery from the physical lust of a married person to the heartfelt lust of a married person. Keep in mind adulterer's still have to have something to do with marriage. He also changed the definition of "sin" to be more than disobeying in the physical world. Sin is now disobeying in one's heart. That's great you say. Then why did you say the answer is "no". Because the only logical definition of what adultery can be is breaking of the marriage covenant in the physical world(OT) or the spiritual world(NT). To add other definitions to it adds to the word of God and is an abomination. (See the last paragraph in the bible). Diapers are an object and are not a married person. Diapers are just underwear. Do you think you are sinning if you enjoy wearing boxers over briefs?
2. So it is ok to pleasure myself?
I Corinthians 15-16
15Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh."
Now as our understanding increases so does the responsibility we have to God and our fellow Christians increases as well. I do believe that God does give us time to ourselves. To revitalize and restore our "Temple" as it is. The Bible says our bodies are Temples of the Holy Spirit. It mentions uniting it with a prostitute and how that is wrong. I believe this to be so. However, Anti-masturbatory people add to the Bible again and say that any kind of release is wrong. Nowhere in the Bible is masturbation mentioned as a sin. The first part about our bodies being a temple is used in parables that Jesus teaches. Most of them are related to the spiritual world and not the physical world. To start with, the foundation that we build upon must be solid. That foundation is the Rock which is the Cornerstone which is Jesus Christ. Before I go any further. If your foundation is built upon money, looks, wealth, diapers, envy, deceit, games, movies, or tv then when the storm comes you will be blown away. I ask you to reconsider having Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior. More directions can be found here.
Back to the temple. If the passage talks about the physical world (which I believe it does since it mentions the flesh) then one is to assume they are talking about health. The definition of health does change over time. I can just imagine ancient Christians putting leaches all over their bodies and talk about how they are cleansing their temple. Now we know that was not healthy, but the problem was that mankind is only beginning to learn how to be healthy. It used to be thought of as fat people being healthy. We now know the exact opposite. The conclusion is that in the medical field of today masturbation is seen as a healthy thing to do. Therefore if one is to follow the Word then one is try to be healthy in all things and that includes healthy masturbation as well as dieting.
Also, the New Testament is a mirror of the Old Testament. Practically everything that happened in Jesus's life and practically every letter in the New Testament has scriptural significance relating to the old testament.
"But at the beginning of creation God made them male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one." Mark 10:6-8 NIV
A key word is Flesh. You cannot become "one flesh from two" with masturbation or with diapers. It is physically impossible. Any additions to this is an abomination as well. See people like to think that being sexually immoral has something to do with their own genitalia, when really it has something to do with what you perceive other's genitalia as(like looking at porn) and what you do with other's genitalia(like sleeping with a prostitute) or what you desire to happen to your genitalia from their genitalia(lust). That is why the Bible is very clear that those are sins.
The Bible is not clear at all about our personal needs and this has to be so because all of our parts, all of our brain, all of our hypothalamus and hormones were carefully thought out and planned by God. He created everything. For us to assume that we are not to manually incite our own testerone when puberty hits and feel our own sexual elation in our brain is to assume that God's workmanship is flawed. God gave us opposable thumbs. He gave us the ability to release on our own. Not as a test, but as a way of avoiding the things which really are sin(see previous paragraph). I find that when I release I do not think about women, or genitalia or desire sex. If you look at it like this then you will realize that 10 minutes in the evening can give you purity all day.
3. So I can just go off and be an Adult Baby all the time, no consequences? God won't judge me for it?
Listen, I do not know your heart. Only you do. The most important things in the whole universe throughout time deal with the heart and specifically love. If you Love God without your heart, body and soul and you Love your Neighbor as you love yourself and you love Jesus and accept him as your personal savior and you even love those who persecute you and are your enemies then what is diaper to that?
As for God's judgement. Well let's just say this. God destroyed Israel countless number of times for breaking just one commandment about idolatry. How many of us have lied? If we were to take on God's judgement everyone on earth throughout time would go to hell. I say this because it is written in the bible. I am no one to proclaim anything of God's Judgement. I just read the bible and try to understands God's will. What I have written here today could've condemned me if it was wrong. But my belief is in Jesus Christ and something that he offered all of mankind:
Grace, LovingKindness and Forgiveness of all sins, past, present and future.
His grace and mercy demands respect. This respect comes to a healthy fear of God, which is justified. God can still chastise Christians for disobeying his words. How do you know if you fear God? You must become humble and abide in him. That is the way to truth. Jesus is the light. He came into the world to save it and not condemn it. That is why Christians can be free. We are not free from sin, but we are free from death. Jesus died and rose up from the dead to prove it.
So as you continue on trying to understand God and diapers and sin just remember to not dwell too much on sin. Quit spending your time thinking about sin and think about love instead. It is love that frees us.
--"Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute,if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things." (Philippians 4:8)
1. Is diaper wearing a sin? Is being a baby a sin?
That is easy. No. Nowhere in the Bible does it ever mention that adults wearing diapers or "swaddling cloth" is sinful. Jesus we all know is without sin.
Jesus was wrapped in swaddling cloth and was a baby at one time. He soiled himself many times. Being a baby must not be sinful. Therefore the conclusion is that such things are not sinful. It can't be sinful at any age either. There are no laws regarding age and sin except for the old Jewish traditions. Since it is not sinful to be a baby at a young age therefore it must not be sinful to be a baby at any age.
However, A Big However. As a Christian the law of God is increased. It is no longer based upon the physical world but upon the heart. In the Old Testament adultery was wrong. Jesus increased this and made it of the heart by saying that any man who lusts after a woman is committing adultery. He changed the definition of adultery from the physical lust of a married person to the heartfelt lust of a married person. Keep in mind adulterer's still have to have something to do with marriage. He also changed the definition of "sin" to be more than disobeying in the physical world. Sin is now disobeying in one's heart. That's great you say. Then why did you say the answer is "no". Because the only logical definition of what adultery can be is breaking of the marriage covenant in the physical world(OT) or the spiritual world(NT). To add other definitions to it adds to the word of God and is an abomination. (See the last paragraph in the bible). Diapers are an object and are not a married person. Diapers are just underwear. Do you think you are sinning if you enjoy wearing boxers over briefs?
2. So it is ok to pleasure myself?
I Corinthians 15-16
15Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will become one flesh."
Now as our understanding increases so does the responsibility we have to God and our fellow Christians increases as well. I do believe that God does give us time to ourselves. To revitalize and restore our "Temple" as it is. The Bible says our bodies are Temples of the Holy Spirit. It mentions uniting it with a prostitute and how that is wrong. I believe this to be so. However, Anti-masturbatory people add to the Bible again and say that any kind of release is wrong. Nowhere in the Bible is masturbation mentioned as a sin. The first part about our bodies being a temple is used in parables that Jesus teaches. Most of them are related to the spiritual world and not the physical world. To start with, the foundation that we build upon must be solid. That foundation is the Rock which is the Cornerstone which is Jesus Christ. Before I go any further. If your foundation is built upon money, looks, wealth, diapers, envy, deceit, games, movies, or tv then when the storm comes you will be blown away. I ask you to reconsider having Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior. More directions can be found here.
Back to the temple. If the passage talks about the physical world (which I believe it does since it mentions the flesh) then one is to assume they are talking about health. The definition of health does change over time. I can just imagine ancient Christians putting leaches all over their bodies and talk about how they are cleansing their temple. Now we know that was not healthy, but the problem was that mankind is only beginning to learn how to be healthy. It used to be thought of as fat people being healthy. We now know the exact opposite. The conclusion is that in the medical field of today masturbation is seen as a healthy thing to do. Therefore if one is to follow the Word then one is try to be healthy in all things and that includes healthy masturbation as well as dieting.
Also, the New Testament is a mirror of the Old Testament. Practically everything that happened in Jesus's life and practically every letter in the New Testament has scriptural significance relating to the old testament.
"But at the beginning of creation God made them male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one." Mark 10:6-8 NIV
A key word is Flesh. You cannot become "one flesh from two" with masturbation or with diapers. It is physically impossible. Any additions to this is an abomination as well. See people like to think that being sexually immoral has something to do with their own genitalia, when really it has something to do with what you perceive other's genitalia as(like looking at porn) and what you do with other's genitalia(like sleeping with a prostitute) or what you desire to happen to your genitalia from their genitalia(lust). That is why the Bible is very clear that those are sins.
The Bible is not clear at all about our personal needs and this has to be so because all of our parts, all of our brain, all of our hypothalamus and hormones were carefully thought out and planned by God. He created everything. For us to assume that we are not to manually incite our own testerone when puberty hits and feel our own sexual elation in our brain is to assume that God's workmanship is flawed. God gave us opposable thumbs. He gave us the ability to release on our own. Not as a test, but as a way of avoiding the things which really are sin(see previous paragraph). I find that when I release I do not think about women, or genitalia or desire sex. If you look at it like this then you will realize that 10 minutes in the evening can give you purity all day.
3. So I can just go off and be an Adult Baby all the time, no consequences? God won't judge me for it?
Listen, I do not know your heart. Only you do. The most important things in the whole universe throughout time deal with the heart and specifically love. If you Love God without your heart, body and soul and you Love your Neighbor as you love yourself and you love Jesus and accept him as your personal savior and you even love those who persecute you and are your enemies then what is diaper to that?
As for God's judgement. Well let's just say this. God destroyed Israel countless number of times for breaking just one commandment about idolatry. How many of us have lied? If we were to take on God's judgement everyone on earth throughout time would go to hell. I say this because it is written in the bible. I am no one to proclaim anything of God's Judgement. I just read the bible and try to understands God's will. What I have written here today could've condemned me if it was wrong. But my belief is in Jesus Christ and something that he offered all of mankind:
Grace, LovingKindness and Forgiveness of all sins, past, present and future.
His grace and mercy demands respect. This respect comes to a healthy fear of God, which is justified. God can still chastise Christians for disobeying his words. How do you know if you fear God? You must become humble and abide in him. That is the way to truth. Jesus is the light. He came into the world to save it and not condemn it. That is why Christians can be free. We are not free from sin, but we are free from death. Jesus died and rose up from the dead to prove it.
So as you continue on trying to understand God and diapers and sin just remember to not dwell too much on sin. Quit spending your time thinking about sin and think about love instead. It is love that frees us.
--"Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute,if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things." (Philippians 4:8)
posted by Baby Brian | 7:52 PM
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The difference is that being gay is a specific instance of abomination. Masturbation cannot unite anyone and is never specifically mentioned.
There people who wear diapers are not gay. So your baby wears diapers is gay? Think about that!
Wearing diapers is not sin.
We all sinners!
I am still so confused on how i should take all this in.. my boyfriend resently came out and told me about his addiction to wearing diapers.. he likes to pleasure himself sexualy in them and he likes to incorporate them into our sex life.. i have been doing my best to accept and be understanding about this fetish but i find myself getting more and more turned off by this.. i feel like this fetish is the same context as a man wanting a threesome.. to me this is just like bringing a third wheel into the mix.. like he's lusting after something other than me.. as selfish as this may sound i cant just shut off what i feel about this.. sadly i find myself being jealous because i feel like these diapers provide something that i cant and in turn it makes me feel like im not enough for him.. i also feel like they totaly emasculate him.. he is the "man" of the house.. and by that title i feel like he is suppose to be the masculine one, the dominate one, the one who sets an example for our boys on how the should grow to be men.. and when i see him in these diapers i feel like they take all of that away.. i am really not trying to offend anyone, and i am really sorry if i do, but this is still all so new to me and i just want to try and understand how i am suppose to accept this in our life.. he has made it pretty apparent that this is something he is not wanting to stop doing.. please help me try to understand.. i have been searching different sites and when i see grown able adults peeing and pooping in their pants and rubbing it on themselves for pleasure it makes my stomach turn, even though my boyfriend has made it clear that's not the kind of fetish he has with these diapers it still puts him in the same catagory of ABDL.. What do i do.. How do i fit something i cant seem to understand into our lives... any advice would be much appreciated..
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Confused. . . Your viewing the diapers as some kind of third wheel is quite offensive to me as an engaged DL myself. It took ME years to come out to my fiance and I've been fortunate (blessed if you MUST) to have a woman in my life who not only accepted me for who I am, but embraced it with open arms. Our connection has never been stronger. She diapers me, I diaper her and we change each other.
" i have been doing my best to accept and be understanding about this fetish but i find myself getting more and more turned off by this..(If you're turned off by this and uncomfortable then you shouldn't be doing it.) i feel like this fetish is the same context as a man wanting a threesome..(HOWEVER holy shit HOWEVER you shouldn't be having such a HORRID view about something like this. Wanting to incorporate someone else into your sex life is on a WHOLE different level than something as harmless as a fetish. This has got to be the most offensive/possessive thing I've EVER heard) thing to me this is just like bringing a third wheel into the mix.. like he's lusting after something other than me (He's not lusting after something other than you, this is an attracting he's had all his life that could NEVER be removed no matter how hard he tried. The fact that he trusted you enough to come out should show you how much he loves and trusts you. It should also show you how long he was suffering in silence. If you cannot embrace and accept him then you either need to compromise and do the diaper thing with him every once in awhile and then do vanilla sex when you need to get off, or fucking leave each other because you're bad for one another).. as selfish as this may sound i cant just shut off what i feel about this"
"sadly i find myself being jealous because i feel like these diapers provide something that i cant and in turn it makes me feel like im not enough for him" (That has got to be the most paranoid and possessive thing I've ever heard. Diapers are an inanimate object and they could NEVER fill the void a person does. There are hundreds if not thousands of AB/DLs who will die alone and unloved because they have no one who'll accept them. Some will die alone and miserable because of it. And you're jealous of the DIAPERS?! Get over yourself.
"i also feel like they totaly emasculate him.. he is the "man" of the house.. and by that title i feel like he is suppose to be the masculine one, the dominate one, the one who sets an example for our boys on how the should grow to be men"
(Just WOW. How sexist and stereotypical can you get lady?! "Being a man" if fucking difficult. Is it any fucking wonder some of us want to be able to let go and relax a little after going through all the shit we do?! I'm a Marine combat veteran and you can search my facebook profile Brandon Ross Fontaine if you think I'm bullshiting you. I was in the manliest organization in the fuckign world for four years. Wearing diapers when I want to masturbate or have sex doesn't emasculate me at all. On the bloody contrary it shows I know who I am. I am confident enough as a man to know that my gender identity isn't in danger if I do things that aren't considered manly by other fucking stupid people. Also how the fuck does what you two do in the privacy of your own bedroom set ANY fucking example for your children unless their watching you fuck?! Do you have any idea how disconnected from reality your thinking is right now? Wow.)
"i am really not trying to offend anyone, and i am really sorry if i do, but this is still all so new to me and i just want to try and understand how i am suppose to accept this in our life."
(Well ya know what sorry I got so mad, but yeah you offended me first and . . . no if I offend you I'm not sorry. Means I made you think a bit. You're a grown woman and you can handle grown up words. )
"I have been searching different sites and when i see grown able adults peeing and pooping in their pants and rubbing it on themselves for pleasure it makes my stomach turn, even though my boyfriend has made it clear that's not the kind of fetish he has with these diapers it still puts him in the same catagory of ABDL"
(....Trying to contain my rage at this one. Not all AB/DLs are the same. This is a VERY complex and layered part of each individual ab/dl, ab or dls psyche. I don't know the exact number of people who're into the messing portion but I'm also one who isn't in that category and if your boyfriend says he isn't than he's definitely not.)
.. What do i do.. How do i fit something i cant seem to understand into our lives... any advice would be much appreciated..
(You sound like aside from mindfucking yourself by thinking too much about what you're doing and NOT talking to your boyfriend about this you've been doing the right thing. You've accepted and incorporated the fetish into your intimate life. . . you've probably made him happier than he's ever been in his life! I suggest you find some way to understand and appreciate yourself the way he no doubt appreciates you.)
I believe wearing diapers unless for incontinence reasons is a sin. I have been researching and praying about this topic for many years and this is my conclusion. I am a spirit filled Christian.
The Purity of the Camp
5 The Lord said to Moses, 2 “Command the Israelites to send away from the camp anyone who has a defiling skin disease[a] or a discharge of any kind, or who is ceremonially unclean because of a dead body. 3 Send away male and female alike; send them outside the camp so they will not defile their camp, where I dwell among them.” 4 The Israelites did so; they sent them outside the camp. They did just as the Lord had instructed Moses.
Also read Lev 15:
The Lord will boot you out of His presence if you are unclean. Go and wash yourselves and make yourselves clean, then He will hear from heaven. Isaiah 1:16
The Lord has shown me twice in a dream to pray for those with incontinence and set those who are captive free through prayer.
Bret
In 2009 I was sick and I wet myself like a baby. I started wearing diapers my mom put the diapers in the trash . My mom said if I start wearing diapers again she'll take a picture of me wearing a diaper and put the picture on Facebook. In 2010 I started wearing diapers again so my mom took a picture of me wearing a diaper but didn't put it on Facebook. I was wearing a GoodNites diaper that had a butterfly on the diaper and thermal underwear pajama top that had a frog on the middle of the pajama top. And just a diaper no pajama bottom. I look like a 5 year old toddler still wearing diapers! My mom took a picture of me wearing a diaper and talking to me like a baby my baby sister also talking to me like a baby. laughing and smiling. that just made me pee in my diaper. I started wearing diapers because I do have a very small bladder
I am a adult baby. I love diapers. I love being regressed and enjoying my baby time. I have spent 40 years in shame, guilt, repression, suppression, lying to myself, unable to connect to others on this planet because I did not love myself. Truth be told, I loathed myself, all because of a transitory object, an object, a thing that is suppose to be for a short season of one's life, instead, I made it a major feature of my life from prior to the age of four up until this very moment. I have tried counseling, tens of thousands of dollar. I have tried denial and suppression, only to have the recoil of guilt and shame. I have tried alcohol and drugs to try to drown out the urges. I have destroyed relationships over diapers. I have missed having a relationship because I could not admit the truth to myself and to other. I could not be myself. God's grace, the gift of grace by Jesus Christ is exactly that, it is a gift. No amount of good works. Of suffering, of prayer, of being better and being more of this or less of that can either add, nor subtract from the gift. You cannot add to it. You cannot subtract from it. You can not work your way out of it or towards it. It is only by the grace of Christ that any of us have redemption. Like an alcoholic, or a drug addict or a person cheating on their wife, or a murderer or a rapist; the person who wears diapers and plays baby is just as guilty. The "GOOD NEWS", is the the....good news, the Gospel. The master of the universe, the creator of world and dimensions and of time itself has bought and paid for my sin. Wow. Now, I can go on with living. Do you you not think the creator of the universe sees your little baby heart? Or, knows where it springs from? If you love Christ and are willing to submit to God's will, do you really think God cares about if you wet your pants? We are all children in God's eyes. Would you punish your own child for wanting to stay in diapers for a little longer? Eternity is a long, long time. Forty years, eighty years, one hundred years is nothing in the grand scheme of things. Wear your diaper. Wear it proudly. Concentrate on the salvation of Christ. Leave the rest to God. If he can forgive the sin of murder and rape, he probably smirks at you wetting your diaper and enjoying it. Now, go out and try to be more Christ like in everything you do and say, leave the judgement to God.
David Eagle...... You made me cry on that one.... I am only 11, and I'm a girl. I am a God fearer, and regular church goer. I also go to a Christian school. My family loves me very much. Yet, I am afraid to tell anyone but my best friend that I kinda like wearing diapers. My mom doesn't even know. Since I'm young, for now when I want diapers I can say they are for my teddy bears, but really, in my private time, I use them. Not for sexual reasons, but because they make me feel good. I am not the messing type tho... Anyway, to the point. It's hard to admit that I like diapers cause I am afraid.... I don't know what people will think..... I know I should be talking to God about this.... But I have to pour out to someone in writing. I have a good reputation, I get good grades, I have good behavior, I just don't know if me liking diapers is OK or not.... Someone help...
I'm a devout Catholic and I am a diaper lover and I personally believe that being a diaper lover is absolutely not a sin wearing diapers is so innocent it makes me feel like the happiest little child I always was recent times in my life have been so hard for me like all these losses in my life and I believe being a diaper lover is innocent think about it you're not hurting anybody you're just wearing something I'm sharing this personal info with all of you because this is wear I believe I should show it I don't do porno or masturbation or sex or anything like that I do this as a happy and fun and innocent way to relieve stress and negative things like that and I love the nice soft pillowy feeling and crinkling sound a diaper brings I would just get out my bag of diapers put them on put them on my precious little Disney plush horses another thing that truly makes me happy use my imagination play some games with them have nice soft cozy snuggles and cuddles with them and have nice soft cozy pillow fights with them and another thing heaven is all about what truly makes you happy and what you envision it as and if diapers and stuffed horses and playtime is what truly makes you happy then God accepts that because these are all innocent things because its not guns and violence its Disney plush horses diapers and pillows its love I hope you all understand and accept this because being a diaper lover and all the other things I do with it are not sins
Anonymous wearing diapers is not a sin so of course its okay just try and read what I believe in about being a diaper lover please and maybe you'll understand a little more and realize that it is okay and you are not sinning
just remember Jesus and heaven accepts all diaper lovers because it's all an innocent thing
Anonymous please accept my help which I am trying to offer you Jesus doesn't care that you are a diaper lover or even a happy go lucky diaper lover guy like me who has such a happy vivid playtime imagination he loves you just the same
Anonymous please accept my help which I am trying to offer you Jesus doesn't care that you are a diaper lover or even a happy go lucky diaper lover guy like me who has such a happy vivid playtime imagination he loves you just the same
it is okay for anyone to disagree with me about my honest opinion towards me being a diaper lover and how it makes me happy but all those who agree with me are the ones who truly understand me and I thank you
Hate to state the obvious, but a diaper is not a person. Thus, it isn't like bringing a third person into the marriage unless he has made an idol of them.
This helped so much, I was almost convinsing myself to have to stop this all together to follow god, but you have given me proof that it is ok and god will forever love me for it!
I am going to email you
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Good that's good happy to help out I guess if you need to ask me anything just say the word
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I have struggled with this and i would say it is an individual matter: what you do with it, and how much control it has over you. That is what makes it a sin--idolizing. If people find validation or comfort from this page or the comments that is great. But also keep in mind, if God wanted you to stop would you? In any matter, never let one opinion guide your whole world view just to fit your desires. What might be he hardest in this specific matter for some is the idea of keeping an open mind that whether or not you think its a sin... you might be wrong. In any case, God has got you covered.
Hey I'm a diaper lover and I don't think God hates me for being one I think God loves me and accepts me as one so it's not a sin I love diapers and my little Disney Princess plush horses horses and I still play with them and sleep them too with one of my favorite games I still play plus all the others is pillow fight is that a sin too I don't think so it's not guns and violence guns and violence is definitely a sin but not this it's diapers it's pillows it's love and it's Disney Princess plush horses and God loves me and all my little Disney Princess plush horses and besides heaven is what makes you happy this is what makes me happy so therefore it's not a sin
good just remember diapers are not a sin and I am glad my email helped you
Really appreciate your comment. Wish I didn’t have to read through so much to find this gem, but hey, I made it! For me, and if we’re honest, probably all of us who have these desires are going to diapers for something we should be going to God for.
Someone mentioned they were dealing with the losses of loved ones, and how diapers allowed them to escape from that. I just can’t help but feel like this person is denying God the opportunity to grieve with them (John 11:35) and to comfort them.
There’s this song that starts out with: “He is jealous for me. Love like a hurricane, I am a tree bending beneath the weight of his wind and mercy.” Our God is a jealous God - he loves us (John 3:16) and wants more for our lives than you can possibly imagine (Jeremiah 29:11). Again, I can’t help but feel like living out our fantasies with diapers can’t quite capture God’s will for your life. And what do we know about God that would lead us to believe that he will settle for the fleeting comfort diapers provide us? God wants a deep peace for you that doesn’t come from diapers, but rather from the one who can calm a storm by speaking to it (Mark 4:35-41). Let him speak to you.
For me, embracing a life in diapers would be a declaration that God isn’t good enough, loving enough or near enough to comfort me in this exceptionally uncomfortable world.
Eric,
I understand where you're coming from and I agree that nothing whatsoever can fill that God-shaped void but Him. However, though I think a lot of abdls use the lifestyle as a substitute, I do think God and diaper wearing are compatible. In many cases, I don't think it's saying God's not good enough. I mean, we trust God to be there through the stresses of daily life, but we still have things we do to relax after work.
God bless you,
Alex
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There is nothing that God can't help someone with or change about them if it needs changing.
This is what I say do what's best for your children and yourself yourself because that's the only thing that matters if you think this is a bad situation and something that your children might catch on to I would say kick him out the door and find someone that you think is going to be a good father figure because life life is precious and some people have problems that they don't understand in their own head and they're not willing to get help
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I am also a human being that suffers from being a diaper lover, I used to indulge myself into sexual diaper fetishism as a young child until my mid teens, basically a few months ago, I would pleasure myself and loved it but what I realised what was so pleasuring to the flesh was destroying my relationship with God and leading me onto a pathway of destruction and death. Diapers are a form of idolatry. If it was not already a fornification issue, its literally praising and putting an object higher then God. I know they can be used as an object that you play in and pleasure yourself in but hear Gods word out before going any further, what the devil offers you is short lived but what Christ Jesus offers is everlasting life.
Only Christ Jesus can fill the empty void not worldly things. do not be conceived to the things of the world. In Christ we have purpose, pure joy, and a future please adhere to this warning as there may come a day where it is to late for you.
Don't regret your failures on your deathbed instead give them To Christ Jesus today and He will create in you a pure heart and cleanse you from all sin so that you can stand before the throne of God blamelessly and bold. May God bless you all and give you the strength to overcome sin and temptation. Amen
If you're a Christian and you're blathering about God, personal relationships with God, and blaspheming about diapers being a "sin" (yes even if you're sexually turned on by them) do the world a favor, and SHUT THE FUCK UP! First of all, you don't know God. You do NOT have a personal relationship with god. You do not UNDERSTAND God. The fact that God created man in his image is so poorly misunderstood so let me remind you ignorant bastards of some facts.
God is unknowable, unfathomable, and ineffable to the puny human mind. Your brains are literally not equipped to be able to HANDLE witnessing God for more than a few precious moments. You aren't walking with God everywhere you go. God is already everywhere. God doesn't give a fuck if you masturbate, and in fact is okay with you masturbating unless you're hurting yourself, or someone else. Idolatry? Fucking really? You're concerned with Idolatry in the 21st Century? Get a fucking grip! God occupies space across the cosmos. Across all of time, and space, and many different dimensions. They're way too busy being fucking everything to give the faintest of fucks if you are, or are not wearing a diaper. Sin is harmful, and this is not. Stop proselytizing, and preaching about the whims or wants of a God so supreme that it is INSULTING to them to suggest that they care if you jerk yourself off. It's far more offensive to murder, or rape, or torture than it is to masturbate, or abort a fetus that isn't even self aware. Stop being so pathetic.
I cannot help but comment a couple to few things. First, God does know if you are wearing a diaper, he knows the color of your underwear, what you had for lunch, what you had for lunch 10 years ago and if you will have lunch tomorrow. And, he cares very deeply about all of that. It boils down to this; Christian liberty and your love of God. Idol worship is a thing. You can place anything before God and put your faith in it prior to God. That could be anything" a job, a car, a nice watch, a trophy girlfriend or wife. If you let that thing come between you and God, it is a sin. If you love that thing more than God, it is a sin. Wearing diapers in and of itself is not a sin. Billions of people wear diapers the first day in this world. Billions will wear a diaper their last day in this world (trust me, I am a Nurse, most people when they die of old age or illness are wearing a diaper their last breath). Christian liberty is just that liberty. Not everyone has the same background, education, history, culture. I get really confused about the crossdressing thing (I like to wear baby dresses sometimes). A kilt is a skirt, a skirt for men, different culture. Many cultures in the world allow some form of dress or skirt and it is perfectly acceptable for a man to wear. What's the difference? They do not take on the role of the woman,they remain who God intended them to be. A diaper in and of itself is not a sin. What you do with the diaper and how it permeates your relationships and your life, that is what matters. If the diaper comes before God, then it is a sin. If the things and behaviors you engage in while wearing a diaper place your relationships in a compromised situation (cheating on your partner, getting drunk or high, violent, isolation) then it is a sin. God knows what is in your heart. Many of us that like to wear do so because we like the way it feels. After years of quite contemplation it is my opinion that I got interested in diapers because even as a small boy, toddler age, I had a father that like to used a belt on my butt. I think I figured out early on that the extra layers of cloth provided protection. Behavior, feelings other than love, those are sins. A piece of cloth is not. Jesus knows what is in my heart. He also know, better than I do, why I like to wear diapers. Because he knows me better than myself, I believe he is okay with it. Remember everyone, Jesus came to not enforce the law but to become the law. We could argue for the next thousand years (and have) about what is a sin and is not a sin according to Jewish law. Jesus came to destroy that system and be the rock we all stand on. And, even if diaper wearing is a sin; Jesus also came to die for our sins. The sin was paid for by blood on the cross. Enough said, it is that simple, your sin was paid for by the blood on the cross.
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